Pointers to discussions of female penetration of the male:
I don’t find it particularly pleasurable physically. I enjoy it more
from an emotional viewpoint. It makes me feel “owned” or “taken” by
her, if that makes sense. I think it takes me further down toward
‘subspace.’ It certainly makes me respond more submissively to her.
A question for subs regarding strap-on play
What does she find un-appealing about it to begin with? is it the position
and motions she has to make to take you? or is it just the thought of
fucking you instead of you doing it to her? I think you have to find out
just what it is that is making her hesitate first. (Next statements aren’t
attacking, just making you look at your behavior) Have you pushed it a bit
so now she feels self conscious and not in control? Drooled over it so that
she doesn’t feel like she can live up to your expectations? Have you in
talking about it made her feel like she has to become more intense/harder in
dominating you to make you happier? If she isn’t comfortable with that side
of her personality, this might be pushing her too soon, too quick, wrong
Strap-on help with wife
Okay.. most men are way too tense to begin with.. therefore you
literally will be tight assed..it will very hard to insert anything into
So you have to learn to relax.. put aside the bdsm element for a
momment..have your wife or mistress or girlfriend give you a nice
When you relax. your sphincter muscles will relax as well.
Second mistake most men make is trying to go too big too fast.. the only
Thing that will accomplish is pain.
the ass is like a woman’s vagina. it will stretch also.. but you don’t
see women stuffing 2x4s up there. not even in pornos do you see that..
you have to start off small.
Strap on tips for newbies
I would start out small. You can always go larger when you’re both more
Also keep in mind that some women may need a little practise “driving”. I was a little surprised when a woman I was with had trouble getting into the
right position. It took a little practise before it all fell into place, so
Beginners “First time strap on”